Wednesday, February 9, 2011

its in their blood.

There are two kinds of girls in this world. One who shows off and other who doesnt.

Incident 1:

Recently, I and my brother went for a malayalam movie (Traffic) in Sarita theatre in Cochin. The movie was terrific. The crowd was overwhelming. We waited for a while for the crowd to drain and then we moved to the 2-wheeler parking area. On the way, I saw a (unmarried?) couple walking beside me. They might be in their early twenties. I dont have to tell you how people behave when we have a nice-looking-girl around.

'Are you serious?' I heard a shout. Everyone around looked at the girl. She was literally shouting and laughing at him. I dont know what made her to talk in English all of a sudden. Maybe because she wanted to let others know that she knows English or maybe she wanted herself to get noticed in front of others. Whatever!

Girls, I think they have a natural instinct to know when to show-off. No matter if she is beautiful or ugly or whatever for that matter. They have it in their blood.
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Incident 2:

This is about someone who I knew for quite long time. She was working in a BPO in Chennai and she had to write some test in Trivandrum and I accompanied her to the railway station to send her off. We got into the coach, found her seat. There were a few people in the same compartment. I asked one elder lady to have an eye on my friend for she was alone.

She called me back from behind when I started to move. She took 100 rupees from her purse and told me to keep it for autorikshaw fare. I said I have enough with me to get myself home. She refused again. Took another 100 rupees and gave it to me. 'Anu, please take it. I know you dont have enough money.' (she used to call me 'Anu')

I was really embarrassed in front of everyone. Even now, I dont know what was the purpose of giving the money to me. She could have given that some other time when we were waiting for the train. She could have given the autorikshaw fare when we came to the station. Maybe, she didnt think it would insult me. Maybe her feelings were genuine. Maybe the way I think is wrong.

Maybe, she was showing off. You see, they have it in their blood.
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PS: Please dont get offended. I'm not complaining about the whole species. There are exceptions.

11 comments:

S. said...

Hmm well somewhat i agree with you.I've got many of my friends who are habitual of this showing off thing..even i dislike it to the core.things can be settled separately too i believe...!But then habits can't be changed you see..yes,there are exceptions to this too and i guess i too fall in those exceptions lol :D :)

S said...

hahahhahhaahahhha...

:D

The first one was definitely showing off :P not too sure about the second one since she was ur friend; perhaps she was just being kind and lacked communication skills :P

Phewww said...

sunakshi...
if u fall under the 'exceptions' category, i like u... :D khe khe...u kno i hate ppl who show off... hmmm... :|

snigdha
first one was definitely showin off.. n the 2nd one too.. cuz she was not showin off to me... but for others in the compartment.. ;)

dont u ppl show off okay.. u ppl r nice..i know.. :D ;)

Shari said...

Lolz ............ Exception or not ...... its in their blood hehe

Phewww said...

very true talha..... :D

Chandana said...

hehehe... even though am a girl i agree!
I think both were definitely showing-off.. but thanks for agreeing that there are exceptions :)

Phewww said...

hehe chandana i know thr r exceptions..r u one among them??khe khe... ;)

thanks chandana for droppin by.... :)

angel in disguise.... said...

hey...i loved reading this post....well...some girls do show off...i wud say...they r the ones in the exception category...the majority of the girls..fall into the good category...
wat say...now when u view things this way...it looks better isnt it?;)

Phewww said...

angel...
thanks a lot for droppin by... :D

n yes..its better to think positive..the wayt u said..khe khe...

Red Handed said...

Ouch!! So much for actually being genuine

Phewww said...

genuine??? :P

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