Sunday, March 14, 2010

yours forever, hopefully.


My bestest friend is gonna get married. I was just thinking how I'm gonna survive without talking to her. I have heard girls change after marriage. I hope it wont be the case with my friend. But sometimes I get so jealous over the one who is gonna marry her. I don't know. I don't want her to love someone else. I know its of no use saying. I know one day I will be out of her mind. She will start loving her husband. I dint mean to say that she will forget me, but eventually the 'love-factor' will degrade.

So, before she stops loving me, let me stop it. I wont call or message her after her marriage. Perhaps she will miss me. Let her. I'm gonna miss her too anyway.

I'm wondering how many people would be there in this world like me. But nobody can help it.

PS: I dint mean to say that people will lose their best friends after marriage. There are exceptional cases also. I just fear that I may lose her after her marriage. Its well and good if I dint. But what if i do lose her? It may take the breath out of me. I'm sure gals wouldn't need their best-friend after marriage like the way they needed him/her before marriage. This post maybe the biggest blunder I have ever written in my blog. I'm sorry. I just wanted to write this down somewhere.

13 comments:

Jon said...

I really dont think you should mix friendship with other emotions...

But still it's your life and yours alone to decide...

Wish you all d best to move on!!

Urvashi said...

hmmm..i kinda understood ur whole post but y the last line...Blunder..??? i dint get that..!!!

n y do u think gals dont need their best frnd post marriage?? everyone needs them n they need them in the same way as before marriage...!!

Urvashi said...

hey forgot to say....template is looking good....greenery n all..its refreshing.... :) :)

I wanna chng my template too.... :(

Mr. "Niraj" Lemon said...

Hey..nice blog..

Aarti said...

Anoop , i can actually ( guess )read whats going in your mind ...Its sadly true ..Except for some rare cases , this usually happens to both boys and gals ....Maybe , beign best friends even after marriage is still not accepted by the society ..n i apprecaite that you have taken a decision to stop responding to her , though it was hard ..its beter to get hurt now and get used to fact thna beign more closer only to get more hurted later ...

Did i make ny sense ??Sorry if not , coz i m gonna do this same when my best friend will egt married n probably ur post reflected the thoguh which I had sown deeply somewhere in my mind

Aarti said...

n hey bdw this blog is so very good ...will i get to look another template next time wen i visit ur blog ;)

Anoop said...

Jon...
I m not mixin it by purpose... :((

Anoop said...

Thanks Niraj

Anoop said...

Urvashi...
i was jus thinkin if it was a blunder...nothin els.. hmmmmm n i jus said from my previous experience.. :((

Anoop said...

u made a lot f sense arthi... :)
don worry abt tat.. i was jus wonderin if my blog made any sense.. ;)

Anoop said...

Arthi
at least one person share the same feelings as i do.. :)

Dhanya said...

Nice new template! :) Yeah, girls especially do change after marriage. Prepare yourself ;) All the best...

Anoop said...

Thanks dhanya for likin the template..
hmmmm i kno they do change after marriage.. i m preparing for the after-effects.. :((

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